Showing posts with label generous. Show all posts
Showing posts with label generous. Show all posts

Thursday, May 25, 2017

Live Like a Child



Recently, I was in a shop where I needed to pick up some merchandise. The usual procedure here is that I have placed an order, and then I go to the shop, tell them about my order, they bring it to me, and then I sign for it and take it away. Anyway, when I arrived at this shop, there was a little girl there with her father and the girl couldn’t have been more than three or four years old. As soon as the little girl saw me, she greeted me with a very pleasant “hello”, and then, knowing that I would have to sign for my order, she reached up onto the counter in the shop and gave me a pen.


This interaction started me thinking that if more people lived and behaved like children, the world would be a much better place. Now, I am not referring to running around out of control in the name of playing, putting foreign objects into our mouths, and screaming and crying when we don’t get what we want or are told “no”. I’m talking about being pleasant as often as possible, being friendly with perfect strangers, and doing things for people because it is necessary without asking for anything in return. 

Clearly, not every child behaves like this little girl. Many children are either too shy to say “hello” to strangers, and many might not yet be able to grasp the idea of giving someone a pen because they know that the person will need to sign something. However, small children seldom behave maliciously towards others, and are usually less inhibited towards strangers than adults. Small children also nearly always have positive attitudes and are in good moods unless something is bothering them. People need to be happier, more pleasant and more helpful towards others. In other words, people need to be more like children and the world would be a better place.

Friday, June 3, 2016

We Gain Lessons and Blessings From Every Event in our Lives



There are things that happen in everyone’s life every day. Some of these things are positive in nature and some are negative. Either way, no matter what it is that has happened, whatever the event is that has occurred; attached to that event or happening will be a lesson and a blessing. The bible says that wisdom is more precious than silver and will bring more profit than gold, so the key for us all is to take advantage of the lessons that we learn from the events in our lives so that we can experience the blessings that will come from them.

When we find ourselves in situations where something bad is about to happen to us, or where something bad has happened to us, the lesson with that is simply to not allow ourselves to be in those situations again. The blessing that we gain from that is the wisdom to know that when that situation is beginning to unveil itself, we know the signs and can avoid the situations and their negative outcomes. At the same time, we also now have wisdom that we can share, which is how we bless others. The bible says that the generous person, the person who blesses others, will be enriched or prosperous. So as we gain wisdom to help ourselves, we also gain wisdom to help others, which, as the bible states, will help us as well. 

When my children are complaining about things in their lives that might not be going as they would like for them to, I simply remind them that there is something to be learned and something to be gained from their experiences. If we look back at our lives, we can probably find the lessons from our experiences, and if we apply the lessons, we will be blessed beyond anything that we can imagine. We just have to be willing to learn, even from ourselves. 

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